Challenges and Opportunities for Muslims to Find the Right Partner

The U.S.A.’s cultural lifestyle differs from Islamic practices. Secularism and individualism influence the dominant living practices in the U.S. However, to obey Islamic teachings, one must adhere to Shariah principles. For example, Islam sets modest boundaries between genders, but in the U.S., casual interactions between men and women are normal.
The Islamic Society of North America (ISNA) dutifully performs its duties to make Muslims feel supported and understood. We connect Muslims with a shared understanding of faith and culture, making them feel comfortable with practicing their faith while balancing contemporary living.

In most South Asian and Middle East countries, arranged marriages within large communities are common. Traditional matchmaking between families, neighbors, and community members in these countries is key to finding a suitable match. In the United States, many Muslims have a small social circle.
The limited connection makes it harder for Muslims in the USA to find an ideal soulmate. ISNA organizes events, offering opportunities for Muslims to meet like-minded people.

Overcoming the prevailing societal stigmas is another challenge for American Muslims. For example, converts, divorcees, and widows face significant challenges in finding a spouse. Many Muslims judge them based on unfair, perceived biases and are reluctant to consider them as potential spouses.
These assumptions hurt individuals’ feelings and affect their chances of finding a compatible and supportive partner. ISNA helps them to start a new chapter of their lives. We encourage empathy and open-mindedness to create understanding and build healthy relationships.

Life is busy in the U.S. People work to achieve their dreams and pursue their careers and educational goals. Certainly, these habits are important to adopt for financial stability, personal growth, and professional success. But living in such a competitive environment creates challenges for Muslims when it comes to finding a supportive companion.
Therefore, many individuals hesitate to marry before they have achieved their educational and career goals. ISNA helps them find partners who understand their career ambitions and support them along the way.

Muslim families in the U.S. face unique challenges. To address these, ISNA serves as a trustworthy Muslim Marriage Bureau. We help Muslims find a perfect partner while supporting their Islamic faith, contributing actively to turn these challenges into opportunities.

ISNA adheres to Islamic principles to create spaces between individuals and foster a supportive network within the Muslim community. We organize events and workshops to encourage respectful interactions. These events demonstrate modesty, integrity, and faith. Our services strengthen bonds within the Muslim community.

ISNA fosters self-awareness and teaches Islamic values that help individuals build meaningful relationships. In conferences, seminars, and resources, we educate on key aspects of marriage, such as:

• Building compatibility through understanding.
• Communication.
• Maintaining Islamic principles.
• Respecting diversity.

ISNA’s matrimonial services help individuals approach potential partners that meet their expectations. Educational workshops allow them to make thoughtful decisions, leading to successful relationships.

ISNA strongly advocates for inclusivity. We enhance awareness among individuals to accept people who face challenges by giving the same love and respect.
Our Muslim Marriage Bureau is a platform where Muslims connect with each other without judgment or prejudice. We make a welcoming environment for all Muslims, promoting compassion, understanding, and respect.

ISNA integrates technology into its matrimonial services. It allows users to access online solutions, overcoming geographical barriers. At the same time, it makes the process more convenient for people with busy schedules.
We help Muslims connect with potential partners and develop healthy communications. It allows them to get to know each other before starting a relationship.

In Islam, marriage is considered the foundation of family and society. It brings individuals closer to Allah while recognizing the values of relationships. ISNA encourages couples to make their marriages reflect the Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) teachings, helping them start a relationship that exemplifies compassion, kindness, and mutual respect. Our efforts strengthen individual marriages and establish them as a strong building block of society.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied proposes to someone under your care, then marry them. If you do not do so, there will be corruption and great evil on earth.” (Sunan al-Tirmidhi, 1084)

• Marry someone with good faith and character.
• Accept proposals from righteous individuals.
• Rejecting such proposals causes harm to society.
• A righteous marriage benefits individuals and the community.